Interpersonal communication
Self-awareness and positive communication
Understand why you communicate the way you do before trying to change any of it. Two days: an Enneagram questionnaire to place how you operate, then concrete techniques for asking, refusing and criticising without attacking.
What you will be able to do
- Know the 9 base types of the Enneagram
- Know the notions of integration and disintegration
- Know your own personality base type in the Enneagram
- Use your "wings" to improve your communication and move your projects forward
- Give constructive corrective feedback using the "sandwich" technique
- Give constructive positive feedback using non-violent communication
- Answer aggression or manipulation (judgements, generalisations, distortions) accurately with a proven technique
Programme
Knowing yourself better
- What there is to gain from working on how you yourself operate
- A 140-question Enneagram questionnaire on communication and behaviour
- Your profile's strengths, talents and watch-points
- Understanding your motives and where your way of communicating comes from
- Setting a precise objective rather than a good resolution
Filters and traps
- The iceberg: what you say, what you think, what the other person hears
- Beliefs, interpretations, and everyone's private frame of reference
- The drama triangle and the games of manipulation
The keys to positive communication
- Assertiveness: accurate, honest and specific
- Adjusting your communication to the personality in front of you
- Making a request without aggression, using non-violent communication
Techniques for the hard moments
- Refusing: saying no calmly, without guilt and without over-justifying
- Criticising a fact rather than a person
- Answering bad faith and objections
- Answering attacks: generalisations, judgements, distortions
What this training gives you
Understanding your personality and your way of communicating is the essential foundation of your personal development and your career. This training pinpoints precise individual areas to work on and works on them in depth. First, you discover the Enneagram, an internationally recognised self-awareness tool that shows which behavioural objectives to work towards and how to act concretely to reach them. Then the trainer gives you concrete interpersonal communication tools, suited to your personality, to make your everyday communication easier.
- Analyse your strengths and areas for progress through the Enneagram, to assert yourself and perform better at work
- Use positive communication techniques at work: in sales, in management, in working relationships
- Assert yourself with effective, concrete techniques
- Face aggression and manipulation with simple methods
E-learning available
An e-learning module on the Enneagram complements the training. It stays available at any time, wherever you are and at your own pace.
Questions about this training
Which personality model is used?
The Enneagram, an internationally known self-awareness tool. Participants take a 140-question test and use the results to identify their strengths, points of vigilance and a specific goal for progress.
Which communication techniques are practised?
Constructive corrective feedback with the sandwich technique, positive feedback and requests with non-violent communication, saying no calmly, answering bad faith, and responding to aggression or manipulation.
Is there a prerequisite?
No. The training is open to everyone, whatever their role.
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